Welcome, friend!

I'm Jamie

Welcome, friend!

I'm Jamie

I'm a Realtor®, Podcaster, Author, Speaker, BNB Host, Digital Creator, Design Consultant, Educator, Momma & I'm Determined AF

Clearly, I'm a multi-passionate entrepreneur. I'm also an aware-as-f*ck human being. I've learned that you don't have to fit into a box. You're allowed to do whatever it is that feels in alignment to you. Even if it is multiple things!

 

It just so happens that I feel I'm meant to help people.

In multiple capacities if I can.

 

Listen, I am no stranger to pressure (ahem, take a look at that list above again) and I understand the determination it takes to overcome obstacles, hardships and challenging circumstances. It's no surprise that so many women begin to feel overwhelmed by not only our everyday responsibilities but the pressures that we (and others) put on us.

 

Hell, back in 2020 the pressures, the overwhelm and the disconnect led to my own divorce.

So I went on a journey to create a lasting-change.

 

I now believe that we all possess a very powerful tool that is the answer to relieving that pressure, if we just harness it.

That tool...? Awareness.

When we have awareness - internal & external - we can make informed decisions. Strategic decisions.

External awareness comes from education, resources, guidance, and community.

Internal awareness, of course, comes from within.

A practice of deep self-awareness connects you to your most authentic needs and desires and can act as a guide to creating peace and alignment.

How? When you value those needs and desires so strongly, you'll honor it in your decisions and actions, which creates alignment. And because you honored those identified parts, you'll feel at peace with the process.

This strategic alignment between your core self and your actions will allow you to live a peaceful life.

The best part?

This one tool can be used to empower you in your business or career endeavors, in your personal ambitions, your relationships, seasonal life changes... you name it.

I hope to inspire you to value yourself.

It's time to embrace your worth

So what do you say gorgeous,

are you ready to live that life you desire?

You deserve it

I'm a Realtor®, Podcaster, Author, Speaker, BNB Host, Digital Creator, Design Consultant, Educator, Momma & I'm Determined AF

Clearly, I'm a multi-passionate entrepreneur. I'm also an aware-as-f*ck human being. I've learned that you don't have to fit into a box. You're allowed to do whatever it is that feels in alignment to you. Even if it is multiple things!

 

It just so happens that I feel I'm meant to help people.

In multiple capacities if I can.

 

Listen, I am no stranger to pressure (ahem, take a look at that list above again) and I understand the determination it takes to overcome obstacles, hardships and challenging circumstances. It's no surprise that so many women begin to feel overwhelmed by not only our everyday responsibilities but the pressures that we (and others) put on us.

 

Hell, back in 2020 the pressures, the overwhelm and the disconnect led to my own divorce.

So I went on a journey to create a lasting-change.

 

I now believe that we all possess a very powerful tool that is the answer to relieving that pressure, if we just harness it.

That tool...? Awareness.

When we have awareness - internal & external - we can make informed decisions. Strategic decisions.

External awareness comes from education, guidance, and community.

Internal awareness, of course, comes from within.

A practice of deep self-awareness connects you to your most authentic needs and desires and can act as a guide to creating peace and alignment.

How? When you value those needs and desires so strongly, you'll honor it in your decisions and actions, which creates alignment. And because you honored those identified parts, you'll feel at peace with the process.

This strategic alignment between your core self and your actions will allow you to live a peaceful life.

The best part?

This one tool can be used to empower you to reconnect with yourself in the deepest way possible, used in your business or career endeavors, in your personal ambitions, your relationships, seasonal life changes... you name it.

I hope to inspire you to value yourself.

It's time to embrace your worth

So what do you say gorgeous,

are you ready to live that life you desire?

You deserve it

Are you considering the big D? Or maybe already had it? And no, I don't mean the naughty one or the city.

Is divorce on the horizon and the thought of navigating it is overwhelming but in your heart you know you're determined as f*ck to finally live the life you desire? The one that you deserve?!

Divorce is overwhelming (even the easiest of them). And not a process that the majority of us knew how to navigate until we were in the thick of it, sometimes costing us a lot more time, money and energy than necessary. divorced & DETERMINED AF hopes to change that.

Then tune in to conversations with fellow divorcees and experts working in the field to talk about this private, taboo topic. This is a community where we talk about all the things from deciding to stay or go to navigating the actual process to figuring out life beyond divorce.

The goal here is to be a resource that helps you feel prepared, educated, assured, confident and empowered to make informed decisions before, during and beyond divorce.

I believe that when you’re Determined AF, you can live the life you desire and deserve!

What they're saying:

"Jamie brings a thoughtful presence to aspects of our lives that can be easily overlooked such as consistency and, of course, determination. And, she speaks to her audience as if she is speaking to only you. Be sure to check it out!"  ~Peter

"I am so glad I came across this show! I’ve taken so many actionable and practical nuggets of advice to implement. Love tuning in!"

"Jamie has been determined from the moment I met her. Having this podcast will not only help me, but others as well to understand our worth."  ~Krizia

"I can’t say enough good things about the transparency of who she is. The way you hear how her story is laid out, you can clearly see the determination she has had throughout her journey. It is absolutely an impactful message to her listeners. She is a perfect example of making it happen and stepping into success regardless of obstacles and challenges. It is so refreshing hearing someone being real."  ~Audra

Empowering women to live the life they desire and deserve.

Explore the tabs below to take the next step that feels right for you.

I’m Here for the Real Estate

Licensed in both NC & SC, our team is ready to help you buy, sell or invest in your next property.

Head to our real estate website to start your home search and to learn more about our team.

Whether you're just visiting the Queen City or you're relocating here to call it home, this guide offers 30+ pages to help you navigate local things to see & do, neighborhoods around the greater Charlotte area, recommendations for hotels, restaurants, bars, and so much more!

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Our in-house design team professionally curates design packages for your kitchen, bathrooms and even exterior. See the transformation in your own space (before demolition!) with our simulated renderings. We'll provide all the sourced product links so you can offer to your contractor (or for the DIY homeowners).

I’m Divorced & Determined AF

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The Podcast for Divorcing/Divorced Women

Empowering women to make aligned decisions before, during & beyond divorce. Weekly episodes released every Monday morning, covering everything you want and need to know.

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P.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative

The resource center that inspires and supports women to feel Prepared, Educated, Assured, Confident, and Empowered before, during and beyond divorce.

Selling Your House in a Divorce

In this book, you’ll learn the ins and outs of selling your home in a divorce. The strategies revealed in my book will help you get through this difficult time with the least amount of stress with this part of the process.

I'm Here for the Mindset

27 pages and 40+ journaling prompts to help you discover your authentic self - your inner needs, desires and vision, break free from the pressure and empower you to create the aligned life you desire

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Start your journey off right by learning to practice and apply self-awareness so you can align the right strategies, boundaries and action plan for you.

This mastery will allow you to value and honor your worth in all areas of your life.

Beautiful Boundaries Journal

Beautiful Boundaries Journal

A journal for to help you put better boundaries in place to have more time and energy to do the things that matter to you so you can live the life you desire and deserve.

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Come from contribution, that's a motto I've valued for years! So... that's exactly what I am to provide you, straight into your inbox each week! No fluff and all open-book. Inspiring you to practice awareness, value your authentic self, and implement strategic actions so you can create alignment in your world to live the life you desire and deserve!

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